Teen Counseling

Is Your Teen Feeling Overwhelmed, Anxious, Or Sad?

Does your teen seem unhappy or stressed out? Are they struggling to keep up at school or having problems getting along with their friends? Rather than letting you in on what’s going on, have they become withdrawn and no longer communicate with you how they once did?

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No one knows your child as well as you. That’s why when they’re in distress, you can tell immediately. Perhaps they seem anxious or depressed about school and spend more time isolated from their family or friends. Or maybe they’ve recently started engaging in risky behaviors, such as self-harm, having sex, experimenting with drugs or alcohol, or making reckless decisions that endanger their safety. 

As A Parent, You Want To Help But Perhaps Don’t Know What’s Best 

Remembering how you felt as a teen, you might realize that your child wants to assert their independence and, as a result, has stopped confiding in you. As much as you want to get them the support they need, at this stage in their development, perhaps additional support coming from someone other than a parent could be beneficial. 

As teens face this challenging phase of life, forging relationships with adults other than their parents can benefit their emotional growth. A counselor can be a positive influence in your teen’s life, providing them with an unbiased platform to talk about their challenges and concerns. At Rocky Mountain Counseling, we pride ourselves on offering relatable expertise and therapy that can help your teenage child overcome the obstacles they may be dealing with, such as anxiety, depression, trauma, stress management, issues related to school, and sexual identity and/or orientation.

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Many Teenagers Struggle To Develop Fundamental Coping Skills

Growing up in today’s world can be a stressful, exhausting, and alienating experience for many young people. The bridge between childhood and adult life is often tricky to navigate, and teenagers frequently act in ways that seem impulsive or irrational. Long days at school, followed by additional hours of extracurricular activities, can contribute to the stress your teen may be under. If they aren’t getting adequate social breaks or downtime to unplug and decompress, they can easily become frazzled and burnt out. 

With the advent of social media, today’s teens must navigate a complex and oftentimes treacherous platform that never existed in previous generations. Sadly, its potential for self-comparison and cyberbullying have contributed to a rise in teen anxiety, depression, and self-harming behavior.

Teens Shouldn’t Have To Navigate The Pitfalls Of Adolescence Alone

While challenges that occur during the formative years are common to all teens, it doesn’t make them any less anxiety-provoking. Although encountering some bumps in the road and learning from mistakes can help prepare teens for adulthood, minimizing harm from high-risk situations is important. With the right guidance, teens can develop important skills to help them thrive at home, school, and beyond. 

Introducing your child to a variety of healthy experiences and role models nurtures growth and encourages a healthy transition into young adulthood. Choosing to partner with a skilled teen therapist may be the answer you have been searching for. With the support and guidance offered in counseling, your teen can learn strategies to overcome stress, anxiety, and depression, setting them on a more positive trajectory to empower them to achieve their goals.

Counseling Can Help Your Child Foster Self-Love, Strength, And Resilience

At Rocky Mountain Counseling, our team is comprised of talented therapists who pride themselves on building trusting and compassionate relationships with teens. Once a strong foundation is established, counseling is at its most effective, providing your teen with a safe, supportive, and nonjudgmental space to talk about their challenges, fears, and dreams. Although what your teen discusses in therapy will generally remain confidential, their counselor will be aware of safety concerns and bring you into the conversation as needed.

What To Expect From Teen Counseling

With our culture’s myopic focus on academics and extracurricular activities, teens are often ill-equipped to manage stress, regulate their emotions, and navigate the ever-growing demands being placed on them. In counseling, your teen will develop and hone more effective coping skills to handle whatever may be on their plate. 

To help ensure comprehensive and long-term outcomes, we may decide to include other family members in the therapeutic process. Together, we will guide your child toward realizing their unique potential and help prepare them for a successful and healthy future. To best support your teen, we will work collaboratively to understand your family’s values and worldview.

We conduct counseling for teens in a variety of locations based on their interests, such as local parks, rock-climbing gyms, and basketball courts. These experiential opportunities, coupled with non-traditional strategies, not only make therapy more comfortable for your teen but also will immerse them in real-life environments where they can practice and hone coping skills. This ensures your child can replicate these newly acquired skills at home, school, and in the community.

The Types Of Treatments Offered In Teen Counseling

Whether therapy occurs outdoors, online, or in our office, we will customize a tailored approach that focuses on your teen’s strengths to overcome specific challenges and maximize potential outcomes. Issues commonly addressed in therapy are:

  • Behavioral struggles, lack of motivation, impulse control, or poor social skills;

  • School refusal, lack of accountability, and other problems related to poor learning habits;

  • Academic underachievement due to developmental delays or learning differences—such as dyslexia or Attention-Deficit Disorder (ADHD); 

  • Ongoing family conflict attributed to life transitions like divorce or relocation; 

  • Experimentation with substance use;

  • Suicidal ideation;

  • Low Self-esteem.

Our counselors have expertise in several evidence-based modalities for teens, including both strength and solution-focused therapy, Narrative Therapy, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), and Trauma-Focused Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (TF-CBT). 

Narrative therapy explores the stories we tell ourselves and, through externalizing the story and asking whether it’s accurate or helpful, helps your teen rewrite it. Whether they reexamine their story verbally, in music, or more philosophically, they can shift their narrative toward positive goals. In addition, ACT can help them identify, define, and hone their values to ensure they are living in alignment with what they care about the most.   

Our therapists work from a lens that considers the physical and emotional impact of trauma. TF-CBT offers tangible tools for reframing thoughts, feelings, and behaviors while also being considerate and responsive to any trauma your teen may have experienced. 

Partnering with a therapist can help your family identify solutions to problems that may be difficult to tackle alone. No matter what your teen struggles with, counseling offers hope, compassion, and support.

But Maybe You’re Not Sure If Teen Counseling Is Right For You…

  • We understand that many teens might not want to attend therapy initially. That’s why we recommend always presenting therapy for teens as a choice and a privilege. Encourage your teen to try it for a couple of sessions, obligation-free. It may be helpful to have a conversation about mental health and the unfair stigma associated with it. You can compare improving mental health and emotional intelligence to working on one’s physical health or academics.

  • Because results are unique to each individual, they sometimes happen more quickly or may take longer. Rather than focusing on results initially, your teen must focus on developing coping strategies and building a trusting relationship with their therapist. Parental involvement is also helpful. By supporting your child while also giving space to hone new skills and strategies, you’re giving them the best chance to achieve the positive results you desire.

  • We understand that time is limited, and choices must be made. It may be helpful to prioritize what’s most important in your family’s life. When it comes to teen mental health, it’s important and helpful to intervene early. Typically, we recommend weekly 50-minute sessions for the first one to three months. As time goes on and your teen hones valuable coping strategies and builds confidence, we will likely recommend a reduction in the number and frequency of sessions.

We Offer Individualized Support For Your Teen 

If you’re ready to help your teen embark on a journey toward a happier, less stressful life, Rocky Mountain Counseling can help. Call 720-252-0345 or email today to set up an appointment at our Denver practice. In your free 30-minute phone consultation, we can answer questions and set up an initial meeting where your teen will be able to relax in a comfortable environment and better understand the benefits of working with a therapist.

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